Happy Wednesday to ya! Love is love. It’s something that we all want to experience at least once in life. So, I just have a discussion for you all. You have found the love of your life and then find out that he/she is bisexual/gay/lesbian? What would you do? I know this is a topic that is frequently discussed. So, what the heck let’s do it again.
Do you say you fell for the one-time Will-n-Grace? Do you stay? Go? Throw stuff? Try to please him? Compete? WHAT?? WHAT?? I say that I would be like “I’m out” but others beg to differ. With her permission, I thank my brunch-mate for this blog topic! She needs your help and I can’t wait to hear what you all have to say.
Here is the brunch situation. She has been dating this guy for a little over a year and is sooo in love with him to recently find out that he’s bisexual. He absolutely loves her but likes men to– ya know–give him a whistle on a wet Wednesday! I’m glad he finally told her and gave her a choice; we don’t need a Janet Jackson-For Colored Girls scenario. Speaking of such, Janet was sooo in love with her husband and knew he was on the “down low” but didn’t see fit to leave until she found out that she had contracted HIV.
Later in our conversation, I found that she is a repeat offender and no she is not ashamed. She said she didn’t know they were bisexual. She’s not falling for the guys that cheat but for the guys that “beat.” This really peaked my interest because now she wanted to try to please this one and asked for my suggestion. Honestly, I have nothing for her and I am at a loss for words. Everyone has their own sexual preference and I can only speak on mine. Let’s Talk???
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